How To Beat Your Bully Boss

How To Beat Your Bully Boss 53 Learn how to deal with a horrifying boss. This is a guest post by David Deke. If you’d also like to guest post here on JobMob, follow these guest post guidelines. It all started back in high school, looking for extra money, for concert tickets, bikes, skateboards and other miscellaneous stuff. I was about 14 years old, at the time, and had an opportunity to help a friend of my parents, work in the construction field, building houses. Now I thought I was going to use the high pressured air guns, power saws, and heavy equipment, to put up some walls and a roof, but instead, was told to haul a pallet of wood, 500 yards across a hot concrete slab, in the middle of August. It was brutal! I ended up being a laborer and a gopher. Have you ever been there? I had the worst boss in the world.eval He even told me, “Son, I’m going to be the worst boss you are ever going to have, but, every boss from now on will be a piece of cake.” He was hard core. Always, yelling and screaming at the top of his lungs, bulling everyone around. And believe it or not, he really was the worst boss I ever had. There are two ways to lead: 1) Lead By Example And Confidence In Your Staffeval 2) Lead By An Iron Fist And Having No Confidence In Self Or Staff. Most bosses today lead by the latter. They are always under pressure to perform, to produce, and to command others to do something. It is a disaster when a boss cannot control themselves, in front of other staff members. It’s embarrassing and not professional. Thousands of managers and supervisors, do not feel confident themselves, therefore, when pressure and stressful situations start to happen, you will see signs a strain and voice modification will increase. Does The Boss “Dangle” Your Job In Your Face? In the past five years, since the recession began, I have seen numerous bosses throw their weight around, because they feel they can. They have abused their authority, by coming down harder on their employees. You or someone you know, may have a boss that acts like a bully or holds your job like some kind of “favor” they are doing for you. Have you heard any of these statements over the past six months: “Do it because I’m the boss!” “Do you want to work here tomorrow?” “I’m the boss, that’s why!” “Too bad!” “No, you can’t have Sunday off!” Anytime a boss has to threaten you when you are doing your job, your boss has self-esteem issues they need to work out. Most times, they do not even see how bad they treat others, because of their own denial. One of the main reasons, I became an entrepreneur was to get away from people that had authority and only abused it. Someone who was at the right place at the right time. Of course, being a small business owner you still have to “answer” to someone, however you hold the cards on the people you want to do business with. If you find yourself in this “battered” relationship, with your boss, here are some things you can do, to get you through another day. 1) Set a personal goal â€" By This Date: _______2012, I Will Have Accomplished XYZ! 2) Communicate with your friends about your frustrations 3) Think “outside the box” â€" how can you use your talents to make extra money on the side so you do not need to work for your bully boss? 4) Find a solid e-course to learn how to make money from home 5) Start your own business and take the plunge In A Catch-22 Situation Depending how bad your boss is and your situation, it is always good to report bad behavior to upper management so something gets done. There must be documentation and verification, of the behavior. You may find yourself in “hotter” water as before, if nothing happens to your boss. Your boss can threaten you even more and you may not have any backing to pursue any actions. Unless your boss is sexually harassing you, you cannot press charges for yelling at you and making you feel worthless. You have to look at the big picture and weigh all your options before presenting your case, in front of their boss. Final Thoughts You are a human being and should be treated like one. If your boss is a bully, and making you feel like an idiot, it is not your fault! They probably acted like that, on the playground and took little kids toys, away from them. Next time your boss is cussing you out, just smile and nod, knowing they are the ones acting like a fool and do what Bill Murray did in the movie, “What About Bob?”, he would just hang-up and disconnect from the conversation. About the Author David Deke, a cancer survivor, business entrepreneur, creator, host, writer, and marketer, has started seven small businesses, and has over 25 years of marketing and business experience. His online series include: GetAClueMarketingShow.com, The “Take Action Series”, “Basic Cable TV Installer Training” and more. He continues to teach others how to break out of the mundane, work routine, into a more fulfilling lifestyle. This article is part of the Over $6000 in Prizes: It’s The 6th Annual JobMob Guest Blogging Contest, which was made possible thanks in large part to our sponsors: WebHostingBuzz is a reliable web hosting company with the servers hosted at multiple US and Europe locations and over 30,000 happy customers worldwide. Organize your job search with JibberJobber, the top career and personal relationship manager online. If you want David Deke to win, share this article with your friends. If you liked this article, you'll also enjoy How to Smell a Bad Boss in Just One Interview.

Cost of Professional Resume Writing in San Francisco

Cost of Professional Resume Writing in San FranciscoIn today's environment, employers have become increasingly picky when it comes to choosing the right job candidate. There are several different reasons why a potential employee may find themselves in this position but as a business owner, you must know what the most effective approach for hiring is.For one, the cost of professional resume writing in San Francisco is incredibly high. The average price tag on such services is $250 dollars per resume for the basic layout editing and up to five hundred dollars per resume for very complicated and highly polished resumes. These costs are astronomical and it doesn't help that the only companies that offer these services are small and not well known in the area.But cost is not the only thing that will determine your decision on whether or not to employ professional resume writing in San Francisco. Also important to consider are the knowledge and expertise of the writer, or writers, who will be doing the writing for you. After all, it's easy to hire the best but you still need to make sure they can do their job.You can always do a test run at first to see how good they are at writing resumes and whether or not they will be able to deliver what you need. Simply contact them and ask for a free trial to their services. But be aware that once the free trial has been up for a period of time, there will be a charge for every resume you send them.Before you get started, it's also very important to research the website of the company you are considering hiring to ensure that they offer free resume writing. You want to be sure that they are professional and that they are capable of delivering what you need. If a website offers a free trial, there's a good chance that they will also have an extensive list of clients who are using their services.As a business owner, it's always best to know what you're getting before you sign up for any type of resume writing service. Especially if you're not even sure that what you're paying for is actually being provided by an experienced professional. You may have the best intentions in mind but without being fully aware of exactly what you're paying for, there's no telling whether or not the service you're about to sign up for will be able to help you achieve the results you're looking for.Most resume writing services will have testimonials and reviews from past clients who were satisfied with the services offered. Make sure that you read through those before deciding whether or not you want to use this service. Otherwise, you could be putting yourself at risk of getting the wrong type of service.Finally, when searching for the best professional resume writing services, take some time to research them. You may need to spend some time searching for reviews and testimonials to ensure that you're getting the best possible service for your money. And if there are several options out there, it will also allow you to compare prices so that you'll be able to get the best deal for your money.